Back-to-School Tip for Parents: Advocate for Your Child’s Success

Back-to-school season is filled with excitement, new routines, and the hope of a great year ahead. But as one wise school counselor recently reminded me, there’s one key ingredient to helping your child thrive: advocating for your child.

Your child’s school is filled with caring professionals who want to see every student succeed. Teachers, counselors, and administrators work hard to create a safe, supportive environment. But here’s the reality—schools have many students to care for, and sometimes the needs of individual children can get lost in the shuffle. That’s where parents make the difference.

When parents are actively involved—asking questions, communicating with teachers, and keeping an open dialogue with school staff—things tend to move much faster and more smoothly. Your voice ensures that your child’s needs are heard and acted on.

Practical Ways to Advocate:

• Build relationships early – Introduce yourself to teachers and school counselors at the beginning of the year.

• Stay informed – Read school newsletters, attend meetings, and check in regularly about your child’s progress.

• Ask questions – If something seems unclear or concerning, speak up. The more you know, the better you can support your child.

• Collaborate, don’t confront – Approach school staff as partners. You share the same goal: your child’s success.

Why It Matters for Mental Health

 Advocating for your child isn’t just about academics—it’s about emotional well-being. When kids know their parents are involved and standing beside them, they feel safer, more confident, and better supported. That sense of security can reduce school-related anxiety and help children face challenges with resilience.

Your role as a parent is powerful. By taking an active seat at the table, you’re sending your child the message: You matter. Your needs matter. I will speak up for you. And in the long run, you’re teaching them how to advocate for themselves—a skill that will serve them well in school and in life.

So this back-to-school season, remember: Your child’s school is there to help them succeed, but you are the driving force. Step in, speak up, and partner with your child’s educators to make this year their best one yet.

When to Seek Additional Support

Sometimes, even with the best advocacy, your child may need extra emotional or mental health support. Talking to a therapist can help children process challenges, build coping skills, and develop confidence in navigating both school and life. If you have concerns about your child’s mental health or would like more information, we’re here to help.

You can call Aspen Ridge Counseling at 801-990-4300 to speak with our team and explore the options available for your family.

Special thanks to George Talakai, LCSW, School Counselor at Whittier STEAM Elementary in West Valley, for this valuable advice.